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DeHaven
In My Lifetime

De Haven Irby

A riveting memoir of survival, redemption, and faith, born from Brooklyn’s tumultuous streets and hip-hop’s golden era.

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“DeHaven in My Lifetime” is a gripping memoir that delves into the author’s tumultuous childhood in Brooklyn’s Marcy Housing Project during the 1980s. This era was marked by rampant crime and heroin’s devastating grip on the community. Drawing from personal experiences, the author shares both the told and untold stories of growing up amidst adversity, resilience, and profound lessons learned.

The author reflects on his tight-knit family, where love and support were abundant, and relatives banded together to nurture the children, instilling lasting values. However, this warmth was juxtaposed with deep trauma, including losing a best friend to violence at eight years old and experiencing betrayal by a neighbor.

As the narrative unfolds, the author recounts his descent into the drug trade during his teenage years, revealing the allure of a lavish lifestyle and complex relationships forged in that world. He navigates the highs and lows of this dangerous life, exploring the influence he wielded and the scars it left.

A compelling thread in the story is the author’s 25-year relationship with hip-hop icon Jay-Z. He candidly discusses their bond, betrayals, and public fallout, including the explosive YouTube exposé.

Hitting rock bottom, the author faced homelessness and isolation but found solace in faith, discovering the transformative power of surrendering to God. Through forgiveness and releasing anger and resentment, he embarked on a path of redemption.

“DeHaven in My Lifetime” is a raw, honest memoir capturing the complexities of growing up in a challenged community, celebrating the human spirit’s strength. It testifies to resilience, community importance, and faith and forgiveness’ life-altering power.

Join the author on his remarkable journey of survival and transformation, inviting readers to reflect on their paths and lessons learned.

Musa(Delaware)

Mesmerizing! ‘DeHaven: In My Lifetime’ masterfully chronicles resilience, redemption, and forgiveness. I eagerly anticipate holding the physical copy, reliving DeHaven’s transformative journey

LANGUAGE
The language of publication for “DeHaven in My Lifetime” is English.

TARGET AUDIENCE

“DeHaven in My Lifetime” resonates with:
Anyone drawn to authentic, raw, and transformative storytelling
Young adults seeking guidance and motivation
Adults reflecting on their life journey
Educators and professionals in social services.